For Professionals and Practitioners
I can add a fresh perspective to any group, whether you’ve been in the conflict field for a while or are just starting out.
Combining expertise in conflict analysis, management, and resolution with my deep background in somatics and embodiment, I enjoy sharing how our BODIES influence how we experience and react to conflict. When we understand what our own bodies do, we can start to recognize it in others, and address high tension situations from multiple angles.
We Have Fun
Conflict seems like a heavy topic, but it’s a natural part of our lives.
In spite of the subject matter - or maybe because of it - we have fun during trainings. I take the opportunity to laugh at myself, and our collective human foibles.
All Training is Customized
Before conducting any training, we’ll talk about your organization so I can learn more about your team and what they need.
While there are certain topics and themes that come up again and again, each organization is different. We’ll talk about your organization in advance of the training so that I can customize it to be as relevant and impactful as possible.
We learn best when we actively participate. My trainings are interactive and experiential to get participants out of their chairs and moving their bodies.
Versatile Trainer
Need online training? Five-day international workshop? Anything in between?
In conjunction with the American Bar Association Rule of Law Initiative, I’ve conducted training in alternative dispute resolution to government and private sector lawyers at the Bahrain Chamber for Dispute Resolution in the Kingdom of Bahrain, the Qatar Foundation, and Qatar University in the State of Qatar and the Government of Dubai Legal Affairs Department in the United Arab Emirates.
I’ve also taught mediation, negotiation, and somatic skills at the 12th Annual Intercultural Negotiation and Mediation Institute in Berlin, Germany.
I’ve done workshops for companies who were in transition, such as after an acquisition, on things to look for in their teams. Often small conflicts can grow into larger crises and prevent integration.
And I’ve given webinars for a variety of groups, such as a recent webinar for conflict resolution professionals on how to include embodiment principles into their work.
Regardless of what you need, we can find a solution.
Conflict Doesn’t Go Away on Its Own
Get Your Team Ready to Handle It
Training can be proactive.
Training can also be a way to get to know each other – and explore deeper engagement.
Ready to Get Where You Want to Go?
Client Testimonials
“Stephen’s work is high quality, and it is a pleasure to work with him.”
Omar Badawi
Senior Advisor for the Middle East and North Africa Division of the American Bar Association Rule of Law Initiative
“Stephen gave several conflict analysis and resolution training workshops, and developed a course module on the subject for the American Bar Association Rule of Law Initiative. The workshops and module addressed cross-cultural conflict, tools for analyzing conflict and preparing for mediation. Stephen’s work is high quality, and it is a pleasure to work with him.”
“Stephen’s expertise in the areas of body awareness, group facilitation and conflict resolution shone through in his very personable and interactive manner of training.”
Megan Johnston
Director of the Northern Virginia Mediation Service
"Stephen led a dynamic training session for Northern Virginia Mediation Service in Fairfax, Virginia. The audience included conflict resolution practitioners from highly diverse backgrounds. Stephen was able to connect with each participant, adapting his techniques constantly to meet the needs of the group as well as those of individuals. Stephen’s expertise in the areas of body awareness, group facilitation and conflict resolution shone through in his very personable and interactive manner of training. I highly recommend Stephen Kotev as a speaker, trainer and consultant."
“I learned so much...Thank you very much for your professional guidance.”
Marla K - Rankin
Human Resource Development, Strategic Advisor for US Marine Corps sharing her experience as a mentee mediator
"What an awesome experience having you as my co-mediator. I learned so much during those hours and can contribute new insight from the experience. You have phenomenal skills and demonstrate neutral approaches that are especially a style that compliments Marine Corps culture. I will always remember your demonstration. I feel strongly that no other style would have such success with our initiator. Thank you for your patience and time. When we concluded, you spent 9 1/2 hours in this process! What a demonstration of commitment. I hope our paths cross in the future and thank you very much for your professional guidance."
“[Stephen’s] coaching transitioned me from post-traumatic stress.”
John DeRosa
Veteran of Iraq and Balkan wars, career national security professional and aspiring conflict resolution practitioner
"From our very first meeting Stephen has been a readily accessible teacher tremendously committed to supporting his students in and out of the classroom. His versatile approach enables shaping of everyday moments into opportunities to deepen self-awareness and build vital skills. His coaching transitioned me from post-traumatic stress to reflective practitioner."
"AMAZING!"
George Mason University Conflict Resolution Undergraduate Student
"You did a great job of pushing students out of the comfort zone while also respecting their boundaries"
SUPER PRACTICAL
George Mason University Conflict Resolution Undergraduate Student
"Learned skills I will use for the rest of my life Hands on and lots of participation was fantastic and conducive to learning skills to help you regulate yourself in stressful situations."
“I can highly recommend him to anyone who is looking for a presenter that will provide meaningful skills to practitioners in the conflict engagement field.”
Bryan Hanson
Assistant Director, The Werner Institute for Negotiation & Dispute Resolution
"I am very pleased with the effort and thought that Stephen puts into his work. He recently provided a webinar for our website www.adrhub.com. This was a new format for him to deliver his material and Stephen showed a high level proficiency with the content of the presentation and comfort with the technology. I look forward to working with Stephen in the future and can highly recommend him to anyone who is looking for a presenter that will provide meaningful skills to practitioners in the conflict engagement field."
Workshops, Seminars, Lectures
Training to Fit Your Needs
I’ve given training locally, worldwide and online for companies, government agencies, groups of practitioners, and laypeople who want to understand how to address conflict in the workplace.
I offer a wide variety of interactive and experiential training in conflict resolution and somatic skills.
Let’s talk about what would be best for you! Below you can download a sample list of training topics that I’ve done.
Sample Training Topics
Want Some Ideas for Your Group?
I customize all trainings, but click here to download a sample list of training topics. I look forward to speaking with you about what I can teach your organization.
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